Can Daily Rituals Actually Reduce Stress? A Psychologist Weighs In

When you plan out your day, you probably establish how long you'll be working, what chores you have to get done, what meals you'll make, etc. But if you repeat that list of to-do's every day without a moment of dedicated "me time," you may become restless, anxious, and even resentful of your own daily routine.  

Anxiety manifests differently for everyone, but many people struggle with feeling a lack of control. It can be a general feeling or focused on a certain event, area of life, etc. Either way, rituals may be able to help fill that gap.

"I do think that routine and rituals are extremely important because they allow us to relax," Epel says. "Ritual is the foundation of relaxation. When we know what's coming next, our bodies can find ease rather than vigilance." 

Award-winning psychologist Ethan Kross, Ph.D., agrees, as he brought up a similar point on his episode of the mindbodygreen podcast: "[Rituals] provide us with a sense of order and control, which is often lacking when we experience chatter," he says (chatter is his way of referring to negative self-talk). "A ritual is under your control…it gives you a sense of agency." 

Now, the rituals you fancy may not be the same ones your partner or best friend prefers—and that's OK. It's important to consider your daily routine and what makes you feel most at ease and filled with joy. 

For many, this looks something like a wind-down routine at the end of the day. From candles to journaling to natural sleep aids and more, there are plenty of ways to turn your pre-bed hour into an intentional ritual for relaxation. We also have a roundup of stress-reducing supplements, if those are more your speed.