The Sleep Routine That Helps Me Spend Up To 25% Of The Night In REM Sleep

I am committed to getting great sleep because it's such a foundation of optimal performance. 

My goal is to fall asleep in less than 5-10 minutes and spend 25-40 percent of the night in deep sleep and 15-25 percent in REM sleep. Since I wear a sleep tracker, I know I usually get my best deep sleep prior to 1 a.m. and the best REM sleep from 3-6 a.m... so if I go to bed too late, it will cut into my deep sleep, and if I get up too early, I lose REM sleep.

It is much easier to get through an extremely busy and productive day if I have gotten 1.5-2 hours or more of deep sleep. Missing my deep sleep affects me more than missing REM, but over time missing REM adds up to a lack of focus, forgetfulness, and feelings of overwhelm. 

Due to the value that I place on sleep, I rarely book flights prior to 10 a.m. because the lost sleep to get up in time for an early flight at 5 or 6 a.m. is not worth it to me. Keeping a fairly stable routine schedule for sleep is another way I bolster circadian rhythm and restfulness. 

8:30 p.m. I always make time for a relaxing Epsom salt bath to enhance sleep. Around 8:30, I'll start running water for a bath, add ½ bag of Epsom salt (3 lbs), and essential oils.

8:45 p.m.: Go back to finishing work, emails, laundry, tidying up the kitchen, and getting the house in order before I go to bed.

9:00 p.m.: I lie on my HigherDose PEMF Mat for 20 minutes.

9:20 p.m.: I change into pajamas, put my hair up, wash my face using an ultrasonic cleaning Foreo Luna device.

9:45 p.m.: Slip into the hot water and soak while I listen to a podcast or audiobook or call my boyfriend.

10:15 p.m.: I take my evening dose of magnesium and probiotics. Taking a form of magnesium, especially magnesium glycinate, is helpful for relaxation, falling asleep quickly, and preventing leg cramps or restless leg syndrome. The glycine chelate goes on to form GABA, which is a neurotransmitter responsible for relaxation and rest. (Melatonin may be helpful for others, but for me, it just adds to grogginess, so I only take it if traveling internationally to hack jet lag.)

Then, I start to read whatever is on my nightstand. I usually bring three books or five journal articles and get through very little before I start to feel tired within 10-15 minutes of taking magnesium.

10:30 p.m.: I'm usually fast asleep by this time.

I sleep best when the temperature is 65-68 degrees, so I usually open windows if it's cool outside or turn on the air conditioner at night. I sleep best lying flat on my back, tucked under my weighted blanket. If I'm cool and comfortable, I am unlikely to move much at all at night.