Dating A Virgo Man? Here's What To Know, From How To Turn Him On To Compatibility Basics

Got your eye on a Virgo man but want to know what you're getting yourself into? We've got you covered on the Virgo prototype, from dating do's and don'ts, to what turns him on—and what will make him ghost.

Virgo is an earth sign of mutable modality and is symbolized by the maiden, or "Virgin," representing Virgo's discerning and scrupulous nature. Ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and intellect, the sign of Virgo is also associated with the sixth house of routines and service.

Being that it's a mutable sign, Virgo can be flexible when it makes sense to them—but they aren't easily destabilized, which is why they're so self-assured. The sixth house also has to do with self-care, so Virgos can be clean freaks, a bit obsessive, and of course, expect the same diligence from you.

As an earth sign, these folks are long term and detail-oriented, aka they're not here for the frill or the fling. They're one of two signs Mercury rules, along with heady Gemini, making Virgos a force to be reckoned with in an argument.

A Virgo man is going to be an attentive partner in love, listening to your likes and dislikes and expecting you to offer him the same attention in return.

His love language can be tactile, as he is an earth sign, making gifts (both giving and receiving) an act of appreciation when done with thought and intention.

Virgos match well with their astrological opposite, Pisces. They strike a soulmate balance for each other, a "yin and yang," one might say.

Where Pisces wants to be dreamy and fanciful, Virgo complements them by creating a tangible, long-term vision. They are both focused on others, whether it's through Virgo's meticulous attention to progress or Pisces' enduring cheerleader quality—so they're always showing up empathically. 

Virgos are also a sturdy earth sign, which is a great dating quality for Cancers, who require frequent attention and reassurance. Virgos like to plan for the future and tend to keep onto relationships for the long haul, which is welcomed by the Cancer, who is extremely loyal to their loved ones.

Lastly, Virgos and driven Capricorns can make great pairs. Capricorns love to be in charge, plus they're goal-oriented, making these two signs very compatible. They'll be running the world together as a power couple, well versed in hard work and taking criticism as a form of growth. They also both appreciate privacy in their personal lives—when they're not flashing their rewards and accolades.

Virgo men are very attentive lovers, paying attention to how you respond to their advances. They are always taking note, and they are open to feedback—remember Virgos always want to be the best!

Being ruled by Mercury makes them creative when it comes to pleasure language, and they have a can-do attitude when trying new things.

Virgo men are self-starters, taking control of the checklist, making sure the details are not being overlooked, and doing it with glee. There's always a need for the visionary and leader, who comes with consistency and focus on the tedious tasks, and a Virgo will work with tact and perfection.

If you want to please a Virgo man, all you have to do is listen. Being ruled by Mercury, he's going to ask for what he wants.

A Virgo man is also going to work hard to please and understand you, so he'll feel most accomplished and appreciated when you reciprocate and show gratitude for all he does.