I'm A Urogynecologist: These Are My 3 Nonnegotiable Tips For Bladder Health

Whether you have a specific problem with your pee patterns or not, we'll wager you want a bit more control over your bladder. Who doesn't want the ability to command their pee frequency? 

To "strength train" your bladder, Greenleaf suggests not giving in to the urge to pee so frequently: "People who are like, 'I've got to go!' and they get up and go, and a couple of minutes later they say, 'I've got to go again!' they're going to train their bladder not to hold a lot," she explains. Rather, when you don't give in to your bladder's frequent urges, you can actually stretch it over time—which ultimately means fewer trips to the bathroom. 

"There's this big misconception that holding in [your pee] is bad," she adds. "It's not necessarily bad, so long as you're staying hydrated." (We'll explain more in a moment.) Of course, that doesn't mean you should ignore your body's natural cues—if you've got to go, then go!—but Greenleaf says that sometimes your bladder can have natural spasms that come and go, and not all of them mean you must head to the bathroom. "If you get a sudden urge to go, take a breath and think: 'Do I really have to go?'" she suggests. Wait for a minute or two, and if you still have the urge, then make the conscious decision to get up and go to the bathroom. 

According to Greenleaf, it's important to eat with your bladder in mind. "There are some foods that can actually irritate the bladder," she notes. "There are components of these foods that when they're processed, they go through the kidneys and then become part of the urine." 

First up: caffeine. You may already know that caffeine is a diuretic and bladder stimulant, but if you are experiencing any bladder issues, you may want to steer clear of coffee. "Teas and even decaf coffee can really irritate the bladder," she adds. 

When it comes to the connection between hydration and bladder health, many focus on pee color: Optimal water intake results in pale yellow pee, whereas a dark yellow hue may represent dehydration. But did you know that the frequent urge to pee may also signal dehydration? 

It's true: "When people go frequently, they tend to purposely dehydrate themselves, because they think, 'Oh, I'm going too much. I'm just not going to drink,'" says Greenleaf. "Well, it actually has the opposite effect on the body because when you become dehydrated, the urine becomes very concentrated. And within the urine are different chemicals, salts, and these can become very irritating to the lining of the bladder when they're extremely concentrated."