36 Best Tinder Opening Lines For Sparking Conversation, From Dating Experts

Below are some suggestions for great Tinder opening lines—just be sure to tweak them to be more relevant to the person you're writing to and written in your voice to make them more personable.

Kevin Carr, relationship expert and cast member of the VH1 television show Caught in the Act: Unfaithful, says you want to do three things with your opening line:

This line achieves all three goals by showing that you're thoughtful, you want to learn more about your match, and you plan to take them on a date.

Sub out "traveling" for whatever is on their profile. If you're uncomfortable using a pre-drafted first message, you're on the right track—opening lines are always more successful when they're personalized. That's why Bronstein suggests asking a question about their profile: "You want to give the person something to respond to. You can ask a question about a particular picture or something they wrote in their profile." For example, if someone mentions they love traveling, ask what they love about it or where they want to travel next.

"I always recommend being genuine, real, and sincere," Bronstein says. "Give someone a compliment. Who doesn't like compliments? If they're interested, they will respond by thanking you and then will compliment you." This is a playful remark that still gets your point across.

Carr echoes the effectiveness of compliments and recommends following it up by stating your intention. This line is a unique way to tell someone they have a nice smile but doesn't stop there. It makes clear that you're not just interested in how your match looks and would like to get to know them as well.

It's flattering to hear that essentially, you're different from the rest. Even the best dating apps can get monotonous with so many people saying similar things. So, if you come across a particularly interesting bio and someone who looks to have put extra effort into their profile, let them know it's appreciated.

This lets your match know right out of the gate that you're looking to establish a meaningful connection. It saves them the guesswork of trying to figure out what you're looking for. It also shows that what they want is important to you.

Adapt this one depending on what photos your match actually has on their profile, but as Bronstein notes, getting specific about something in a person's profile is a great way to make them feel like you're actually interested in them, specifically. This method can be especially useful if you match with someone with no bio. With almost no information about the person, you can ask where they were in a vacation photo or how long they've had the pup featured in a picture with them. As Bronstein notes, "Even though there's not much to work with, you can always find something to ask a question about!"

We love to talk about ourselves. Anytime you can ask a question that gives someone this opportunity, it helps move the conversation along. You don't want the exchange to feel like an interview, however. Follow up with statements and observations that allow the conversation to flow naturally.

If you're lucky, they'll say matching with you. At the very least this opener gives them something to think about and demonstrates genuine interest.

Nothing gets the butterflies going like talking about the L-word. This opening line helps you come across as a serious contender. It can also demonstrate emotional intelligence, as those who lack it aren't interested in conversations about feelings.

Sometimes a more lighthearted opening line is perfect to get someone's attention. Maybe they believe in it too, or maybe they don't. Maybe the line simply makes your match smile. Either way, you've given them an opening to engage.

It's honest. It's vulnerable. It's direct. Often, that's all it takes.

People who make us laugh are fun to be around. Telling a corny joke is a great way to get someone to let their guard down. It instantly shows that you don't take yourself too seriously and takes some pressure off the interaction.

Get it? Chemistry? Coming through with a funny icebreaker that's also clever can help you seem charming and witty, both admirable traits.

There are many ways to wax poetic but none more disarming than doing so with a touch of humor. This is a cute line to make your match blush without going over the top with creative expression. Plus, it subtly implies that you're not just on the app wasting time but looking for a special someone.

As mainstream as dating apps have become in recent years, some are still a bit self-conscious about using them. Or rather, self-conscious about other people knowing they use dating apps. Have fun coming up with a more traditional first meeting story. May the best grocery store, gym, or coffee shop win.

Here's a ready-made alternative meeting story that you can present to your match. The idea of fate is romantic, while the airplane adds a sense of adventure. At the very least, the two of you can laugh about the suggestion and agree to tell everyone the truth.

It's such a random question that it's humorous. When you first match with someone, light and easygoing dialogue can work in your favor. This is especially true with a person who's on the fence about you. Try to develop a rapport and delve into heavier topics once you sense they're enjoying the exchange.

The implication that your match has found their person, even in jest, is intriguing. Also, confidence is attractive.

Shedding light on the vastness of the Tinder community and the odds of a successful match is comical in itself. It lends credence to the idea that maybe it's not a reach to consider the connection a more profound sign.

For many, dating apps seem like a necessary evil. They don't particularly enjoy the process but participate because that's the direction dating has trended. Between catfishing, a lack of responses, and general insincerity, things can get really old really fast. So, open with this line and bond over mutual disdain for our new normal.

Being presumptuous can actually be charming when you're joking. Plus, it cuts to the chase and lets your match know you're interested in a real-life date. Just read the room with this and all the other opening lines here. If the person doesn't demonstrate even a slight sense of humor on their profile, you may want to ease into these types of comments.

Carr stresses the importance of transparency here. "If you're just looking for casual fun or a hookup, be open about what you're looking for." Use specific wording in your message that clearly communicates this to make sure the two of you are on the same page. (You should also try to make sure you're picking the right dating app for what you're looking for.)

Bronstein recommends this line for a more engaging approach. It's funny while delivering the message that you're not looking for anything serious, without explicitly saying so. This less-direct method works best in tandem with stating your intentions on your profile. If someone takes the time to read it and still matches with you, you're less likely to offend them when leading with hookup innuendo.

This icebreaker is cute, sexy, and suggestive. The flirty approach may render your desired result. Just make sure you pull it out during an appropriate season.

Notice how most of these lines involve an invitation to come to your place? This puts the ball in your match's court to accept the invite and take it to the next level, or not.

Switch it up. Maybe they're not comfortable coming to your place but wouldn't mind you coming to theirs.

Even if OK with a hookup, your match might still wish to be courted a bit. Don't forget about compliments and tact here. Tell the person why you like them so they know you're not simply swiping right on everyone.

Sitting on the couch watching and discussing television together is low-key yet intimate. If that's what you're looking for, opening with this line conveys your intent.

This remark makes it clear that you're not looking for anything serious. Yet, when teetering the line between serious and crass, it carries a fun tone.

Unique lines are "lines that make you stand out," according to Carr. Swiping through endless profiles and trying to spark engaging conversation with multiple people can grow exhausting. This is why your match may not respond to every single message. Try to say something they haven't heard before. Preferably something like this that invests in gaining deeper understanding of who they are.

(For a little more inspo, here's our list of the best thought-provoking questions to ask in any situation.)

This message is sweet without being sappy. It gets your conversation off to a feel-good start.

Everyone wants to feel special. Lines like this are almost guaranteed to make your match gush. Only use it if you're sincere.

Most of us have felt misunderstood. So, your match will appreciate you looking to understand them from the jump.

This one hits on a few key points we've discussed. It's a question, which compels a response; it's an attention grabber; and it can also be considered a compliment. You're assuming they're really good at something. Best of all, it's thought-provoking and likely will require them to send you a unique response rather than the boilerplate ones they're used to writing up.

Also, remember that not all dating apps are created equal. What works on Tinder may not be as successful on more relationship-oriented dating apps like Hinge or eharmony. When in doubt, focus on being authentic and focus on trying to connect with each potential match as an individual.