99 Deep Questions To Ask A Tarot Deck During Your Next Reading

Tarot began as a fun parlor game in the late 16th and early 17th centuries and has since evolved into a tool for introspection and even divination. Tarot readings involve using a tarot deck (though nowadays, oracle decks have become popular too) to ask questions and receive insight, either with the help of a tarot card reader or on your own.

Traditional decks (like the classic Rider-Waite deck) have 78 cards, all with unique meanings, and when you pull a card, the idea is that it has a message for you and your inquiry.

Before we dive into how to start formulating specific questions, let's first look at how to prepare for the reading. For one thing, it's a good idea to find a quiet, private place where you can really drop into your own energy.

From there, Matassa says, you start to set the stage for the kind of conversation you're available to have with your deck in that moment emotionally. "And this starts way before you even take out the deck. This starts with connecting to self in terms of what it is you actually feel you need in this moment," she notes, adding to ask yourself what kind of conversation you need and are available for.

And once you take out your deck, she recommends being clear with the deck about what it is you're looking for. "We take out the deck and say, 'OK, I'm available for you to tell it to me really, really straight,' or, 'Right now I'm feeling like I need a little bit more nuance and a little bit more softness and sweetness,'" she explains.

Once the energetic groundwork is laid, you can start thinking about questions. Generally speaking, some readers advise against yes or no questions, such as using language like "Should I..." or "Can I...," and here's why: Life is not black and white. And in fact, tarot encourages us to push beyond those self-imposed limitations.

Of course, there may be times within a reading when a yes-no question feels pertinent to ask, and you can make that call yourself. But as Matassa explains, "I don't really think that tarot is a yes-no proposition. And when we tighten around those kinds of inquiries, the tarot tightens too—it wants to give us a more expansive mode of wayfinding."

So, she notes, think of the reading as "more of a dialogue than a call-and-response." Try to keep questions open-ended so you can really dip into the nuances, imagery, and emotions evoked by the cards you pull.

Sometimes beginning a reading is as simple as explaining to your deck what's going on and asking for thoughts on your situation, Matassa says. (Again, the same way you would converse with a friend.)