This Sex Therapist Has Identified 11 Unique Sex Personality Types

Here are the 11 sexual personality types you should know, according to Marin. You'll probably relate to more than one, she says, so it might be helpful to choose a "top 3" that you feel most apply to you.

For you, sex is all about stress relief. Sex is a way you blow off steam and unwind. You may seek out sex because you're feeling tense, or you may simply enjoy spending time basking in the afterglow when sex is over. Maybe you like how sex puts you right into a deep sleep afterward! You may masturbate for the same reasons too. Orgasms are important to you because they bring about that feeling of relief or release. Sex just doesn't feel complete without that. 

Sex is your playground! You're all about novelty. You're curious about sex, and you love learning, experimenting, and trying new things. You like pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. You don't take sex too seriously, and you can laugh about it if your explorations don't work out perfectly. You may read articles or books about sex or may have taken workshops on sex before.

To you, generosity is the most important quality of sex. You like for there to be a balance. You want to know that your partner enjoys giving just as much as you enjoy receiving, and vice versa. It's important to you that you and your partner are both willing and enthusiastic. You like knowing that you're both open to each other's needs and willing to work together. 

You view sex and pleasure as a gift that you give to your partner. Your partner's sexual experience is at least as important to you as your own and probably even more so. You're very in tune with your partner's experience, and it makes you feel good to know that you can make your partner feel good. You may also struggle with receiving. 

For you, it's extremely important for sex to feel safe. You like feeling that foundation of security with your partner and with yourself. Your boundaries are important to you, as is enthusiastic consent. You may have experienced sexual abuse in your past, which has led you to seek out safety as an adult. Or you may simply like feeling that bond of trust and security with a partner before and while being intimate. 

You like sex to feel all-encompassing, intense, and passionate. Maybe even animalistic. You're very in tune with the energy between you and your partner during sex. You love the idea of letting go and losing yourself in the moment. For you, the best sex is when time seems to stand still. 

For you, sex is about pure physical pleasure. You just like to feel good! You may even be confused about all of these different personality types because you think sex is just one of those simple pleasures in life. You enjoy touch and physical contact throughout the day too. You don't need to feel emotional connection with someone to have great sex with them. You may be a kinesthetic type of person—you learn by doing, and you're tactile.

The most important thing for you is that sex is something that you and your partner prioritize over other things in your life. You don't want to make excuses about being too busy or tired; you want to be intimate before that. You value your sex life, and you're willing to spend time on it and make sacrifices for it. You like sex to be consistent. You may even like having a specific routine with how often you have sex.

Sex is all about connection for you. You want to experience real emotional intimacy with your partner while you're being physical. It's important for both you and your partner to feel present in the moment with each other. Sometimes you may like slower, more drawn-out sex. You like exchanging "I love you's" during sex, or making eye contact. 

You enjoy sex that connects you to a higher purpose. You think sex should be a transcendent experience. Sex is bigger than what's happening in the body. You may be religious, or you may enjoy Eastern philosophies like tantra. 

Once you've picked out your top three, consider asking your partner(s) to pick out theirs and compare—it might help you better understand each other and how to make your mutual sex life more satisfying for both of you.