What To Know About June's Birthstones + How To Work With Them

The official birthstones we're familiar with today were designated in 1912 by the National Association of Jewelers in the United States. Before then, though, the idea of birthstones had already been around for centuries, dating back to biblical times. In the book of Exodus (28:17-20), for instance, it's written that 12 gemstones were fixed on the prophet Aaron's breastplate. "There were 12 stones, one for each of the names of the sons of Israel, each engraved like a seal with the name of one of the 12 tribes," it says

And as Ashley Leavy, founder and educational director of the Love and Light School of Crystal Therapy, previously explained to mbg, birthstones also have roots in Western astrology and Ayurveda. In fact, she says, the reason the National Association of Jewelers standardized all the American birthstones just over 100 years ago was that so many different traditions had different birthstone options for each month.

If you're born in June, you're in luck, as June is one of just three months in the year (along with August and December) that has three birthstones. Those stones are pearl, alexandrite, and moonstone, and each has its own history and spiritual significance.

The only gemstone formed by a living creature (the oyster), pearls are often thought of as the primary birthstone for June. According to crystal expert and founder of Goldirocks Yulia Van Doren, pearls are made of calcium carbonate, just like the shells of the oysters they come from.

As Van Doren previously explained to mbg, pearls serve as reminders that it's often the most difficult things in life that transform us the most beautifully. "Just as it takes a mollusk much time and effort to transform a grain of sand into a pearl, it also takes us a lot of time and dedicated soul work to transform our greatest challenges into priceless radiance," she explains.

And as Leavy adds, pearls also have a strong association with the moon. "This association makes sense because it literally looks like a tiny moon—it's brilliant, and shining, and lustrous," she says, adding, "the ancient Greeks and Romans believed this stone was actually formed from the light of the moon."

In astrology, the moon also rules the sign of Cancer, further connecting it to the month of June. (Cancer season begins toward the end of June.) It's also associated with Monday or "moon day," Leavy says, so it's "particularly auspicious to work with pearl Mondays."

The main thing to remember when caring for pearls is to store them in a pouch or jewelry box where they'll be protected, and further, to shield them from any acids (such as perfume) while wearing them.

Next up we have alexandrite, which, Leavy says, is becoming increasingly rare in its natural form and is "prohibitively expensive." There are a lot of fakes out there, she notes, adding to be wary of where you're purchasing yours.

Take alexandrite's color-changing quality as a direct symbol of this stone's meaning. "It's best known for helping you go with the flow and adapt to new people, situations, and circumstances," Leavy explains, adding it also supports you as you work on personal development, personal growth, and working through tough emotions.

Further, "If you find yourself in an uncomfortable situation that you're not a fan of, it allows you to make the best of things in the meantime," she says. Then, as you're creating time and space to sort things out or come up with a backup plan, alexandrite can even bring clarity and messages through to you about how to deal with the situation.

"It helps you take those emotions and direct them in a really useful and productive way by taking action," Leavy notes. And because of this, in modern crystal healing, alexandrite is also associated with promoting positive change and transformation.

Last but certainly not least, we have moonstone, which is a gemstone of sodium potassium aluminium silicate, belonging to the feldspar group of minerals. The purest moonstone you'll find is colorless/translucent with a slightly blue sheen, making it appear almost lit from within, though Leavy adds there's also black moonstone, tangerine, peach, apricot, rainbow, and more.

Thinking back to Cancer's association with the moon, this is another stone that was aptly chosen for the month of June. And as Leavy tells mbg, moonstone is best known for balancing emotions: "It connects with the element of water and with the moon, so it's deeply entwined with the emotions and intuition, and it really helps bring out this ebb and flow of your inner emotional compass," she explains.

Not only that, but when emotions get turbulent, moonstone can help you "ride the waves," so to speak. "It really helps you step into your own tenderness and become really nurturing of yourself and of others, and it helps you open up to your intuition and be guided by your own inner guidance," Leavy adds.

If you're into any sort of moon rituals or water rituals, she also notes this is the stone to incorporate. "It's great for actually facilitating and enhancing a connection with the energies of the moon," she notes, adding it can "open you up to the influences of the water element, which is deeply connected with emotions, intuition, and cleansing."

Similar to alexandrite, any of your preferred cleansing or clearing techniques will work for this crystal. However, given its association with the moon, using moonlight to cleanse or charge up your moonstone seems like the obvious choice.