6 Expert-Backed Strategies To Stop Picking Your Lips Once & For All

It seems like an opportune time to round up the best (and we mean best!) expert tips to help curb the urge to pick and peel. Here's how to keep finicky fingers at bay and keep your lips soft, full, and supple: 

To avoid picking at those dry flecks of skin, it's important to prevent those cracks in the first place. Meaning: Keep the lips aptly hydrated, especially as we enter colder weather. "Keeping them hydrated with an SPF emollient lip balm is one of the best ways to reduce dryness that can lead to picking," says Ife J. Rodney, M.D., FAAD, founding director of Eternal Dermatology + Aesthetics. "This will help keep your lips conditioned and speed up cell turnover."

In terms of the best lip-softening ingredients, look for emollients that build up the skin barrier—like ceramides and fatty acids. Humectants are great, but you might not want to use them as your sole moisturizer: "Lip balms that contain only humectant ingredients, such as hyaluronic acid and glycerin, can actually make lips more dry because they attract moisture, and if the air is very low in humidity, then they can pull moisture out of the skin, and then the moisture evaporates away," board-certified dermatologist Hadley King, M.D., told mbg about tending to lip cracks. See here for our favorite lip balms. 

Either select a lip scrub (I've been loving the Pout Hero Lip Scrub by Thrive Causemetics, as the tube packaging keeps the whole experience mess-free), or create your own DIY version. 

"Dry lips may also be a sign of a vitamin [gap] like B vitamins or zinc," notes Rodney. (Specifically a lack of folate1, B62, B123, and B24 has been associated with cracked lips.) If you think you might be dealing with a nutritional gap, "add a supplement or multivitamin after speaking with your doctor," Rodney continues. Here's our list of favorite multivitamins for you to choose from.

It's easier said than done, but do try to stop licking your lips throughout the day. It may seem like you're simply re-moistening them with your saliva (harmless, right?), but it's not as simple as you think: Unless there's an occlusive on top to trap in the water, it can dry out on the surface and lead to even more dryness. 

And if you find yourself picking more during times of stress, managing those feelings can ultimately help you find relief. It's easier said than done, of course, but try to discover whatever practices feed your mental health—be it movement, breathwork, gratitude practices, et al. 

Specifically, severe picking can be a form of obsessive-compulsive disorder called excoriation or dermatillomania, which may require professional intervention. If it's available to you, consider speaking with a therapist to get to the root cause of your skin picking and find effective coping methods. 

Picking your lips is a difficult habit to break, considering there are a host of reasons you may feel tempted to tear at the vulnerable skin. As much as we can say that the skin on your lips is thin and delicate, sometimes actionable tips (like the ones listed above) are what you need to actually halt the picking for good. Just know that you likely won't kick the habit overnight—so be gentle with yourself in the process.