Worrying About Your Sleep Can Cause Insomnia: Here's What To Do Instead

What is sleep? Sleep involves the cycling of REM and NREM stages. A full cycle is about 90 minutes. This cycle is then repeated three to six times in a night. Anatomically, sleep is complicated and is really about lack of wakefulness. Wakefulness mechanisms, in a simplistic description, require the coordinated activity of connections of the thalamus, the hypothalamus, the cortex, and the brainstem—all different parts of the brain.

Many of us have experienced this: We become anxious about sleep and that disrupts the critical transmission of neurotransmitters that help us fall asleep. We have to learn to trust our bodies and our brains to do what they are naturally programmed to do.

Go to sleep the same time each night and wake the same time each morning. Again, we humans thrive on rhythm and circadian rhythms are crucial for healthy brains. When that rhythm is disrupted, poor functioning and degeneration can more easily occur. Even if you are getting the approximate same number of hours of sleep a night, if it is not between the same hours, that can be a disruption to our rhythm.

Meditation not only supports the natural physiology of sleep but it also helps us to bring our bodies to a relaxed, calm, and contemplative state, thus reducing anxiety and panic.

Have dinner three hours before bedtime and try to eat meals that are easily digestible and do not cause large spikes in physiological hormones. That means avoiding animal products, dairy, fried foods, sugary foods, and processed foods.

Spend 20 minutes outside in the morning between 6 a.m. and 10 p.m., depending upon when it is light in your region. The angle of the sun at that time of day sends a message to your brain that it is morning and a brand-new day—the start of the cycle.

You don't have to become a triathlete. Walk, do yoga, run, hike, cycle. Get your blood moving and tire your muscles and pump your heart and lungs.

Studies have shown that regular exposure to nature calms our mind, lowers our blood pressure, and touches our soul.

My favorites for calming and rejuvenating sleep include passionflower, lemon balm, and lavender. These plants are calming, and not sedating, and can help ease the fear we have of not being able to fall asleep when night falls.

I love to help my patients find a more natural solution to correcting their rhythms, getting good sleep, and boosting their brain and ultimate health and well-being. Sweet dreams!